When it comes to attraction, certain behaviors can instantly turn women off, no matter how physically attractive a man may be. Women have shared their biggest dating deal-breakers—here are 50 things men do that women find completely unattractive.
1. Poor Hygiene
Bad breath, body odor, and dirty nails are instant deal-breakers. Grooming and cleanliness matter.
2. Being Rude to Service Staff
How you treat waiters, cashiers, and customer service reps says a lot about your character.
3. Arrogance Over Confidence
Confidence is attractive, but boasting and acting superior is not.
4. Constantly Talking About Yourself
A one-sided conversation where you never ask about the other person gets old fast.
5. Bad Listening Skills
Nodding along while scrolling on your phone? That’s a huge turn-off.
6. Lack of Ambition
Having no goals or passion for anything makes you seem uninspiring.
7. Always Complaining
Constant negativity drains the energy out of any interaction.
8. Being Too Clingy
Texting non-stop or needing constant validation can feel suffocating.
9. Overusing Cringe Pickup Lines
Most women prefer genuine conversations over outdated, rehearsed one-liners.
10. Poor Table Manners
Chewing with your mouth open or talking while eating? Not a good look.
11. Trying Too Hard to Impress
Flexing your wealth, car, or muscles too much can be a turn-off.
12. Ignoring Boundaries
Respect personal space and emotional limits; don’t push too hard.
13. Being Dishonest
Lying, exaggerating, or playing games will ruin trust instantly.
14. Acting Jealous or Possessive
Insecurity disguised as control is a major red flag.
15. Lack of Basic Cooking Skills
Knowing how to make at least a simple meal is a plus.
16. Overbragging About Money
Wealth is attractive, but constantly mentioning it is not.
17. Not Taking Care of Your Health
Ignoring fitness, eating junk all the time, and not prioritizing wellness are unattractive habits.
18. Talking Down to Others
Whether it’s mansplaining or being condescending, it’s a huge turn-off.
19. Being Addicted to Social Media
If you’re glued to your phone 24/7, it makes you seem distracted and disconnected.
20. Wearing Too Much Cologne
A little scent is nice; too much is overwhelming.
21. Cheating or Flirting With Other Women
If you can’t be loyal, don’t expect respect.
22. Being Lazy
Not putting effort into personal growth, relationships, or responsibilities is unattractive.
23. Playing Mind Games
Sending mixed signals or ghosting just shows immaturity.
24. Poor Fashion Sense
You don’t need designer clothes, but dressing sloppily all the time isn’t attractive.
25. Not Being Emotionally Available
Women appreciate men who can express and handle their emotions maturely.
26. Overusing Slang or Baby Talk
There’s nothing cute about a grown man acting like a teenager in conversation.
27. Being Obsessed With Video Games
Having hobbies is great, but if video games take priority over everything else, it’s a problem.
28. Lack of Independence
Not being able to take care of yourself is a major red flag.
29. Being Overly Defensive
If you can’t handle feedback or admit when you’re wrong, it’s exhausting for a partner.
30. Not Making an Effort in a Relationship
Expecting the woman to plan everything and carry the relationship is a turn-off.
31. Never Complimenting Her
Women like to feel appreciated. A simple compliment goes a long way.
32. Expecting Her to Always Pay or Plan Dates
A relationship should be balanced, not one-sided.
33. Trying to Dominate Every Conversation
Women appreciate men who listen as much as they talk.
34. Having No Hobbies or Interests
Being passionate about something makes you more attractive.
35. Taking Too Many Selfies
Confidence is great, but constant self-obsession is not.
36. Comparing Her to Other Women
No one wants to hear about your ex or how someone else does something better.
37. Always Showing Off at the Gym
Being fit is great, but constantly posting gym selfies or flexing for attention is cringeworthy.
38. Making Everything About Sex
Not every conversation needs to be turned into a sexual joke or innuendo.
39. Not Being Supportive
A good partner lifts you up, not tears you down.
40. Interrupting or Talking Over Her
Women want to feel heard and respected in conversations.
41. Expecting Her to Fix You
It’s not her job to heal your emotional wounds—work on yourself first.
42. Not Knowing How to Communicate
Being silent when there’s an issue or exploding in anger are both unhealthy.
43. Being Overly Competitive
Having ambition is good, but constantly trying to outshine or belittle others is annoying.
44. Expecting Instant Gratification
Patience and effort are key in relationships.
45. Never Apologizing
Being too proud to admit when you’re wrong is a major red flag.
46. Constantly Talking About Your Ex
She’s in the past for a reason—leave her there.
47. Taking Too Long to Respond to Messages
If you’re interested, show it. Keeping her waiting on purpose is childish.
48. Only Wanting to Hang Out Late at Night
If the only time you hit her up is past 10 PM, she knows what’s up.
49. Having No Sense of Humor
Laughter is attractive! Taking yourself too seriously all the time is not.
50. Being Insecure About Masculinity
Real men don’t have to prove they’re “manly” all the time—just be yourself.
These are just some of the top things women find unattractive in men. If you’re guilty of a few, don’t worry—self-awareness is the first step to change.
Want to improve your dating game? Work on these areas, and you’ll have a much better chance of making a great impression!
Which of these do you think is the biggest turn-off? Let us know in the comments!
